Now this is the real thing focusing on 'Positivity'.
Message to All: Be Positive. You won't regret it.
Now about being positive, it may sound so easy but it's actually not so. I have friends, girls, who are 'dumped' by their so called 'boyfriends' and started 'emo-ing' for a long time. What for? I'm sure they knew it couldn't be real "Love" ('cos they still haven't considered lots of things before starting a relationship. e.g. their future, stuff like that etc.) but they went on 'emo-ing', it's sad to see friends like this so I just tried to help them (or sort of counsel). I used everything i had to make them become positive but I couldn't, they just thought they were matured enough to know what was happening. I gave up and let them recover by themselves, maybe time really heals wounds. (I'm not criticising the girls, no offence)
Being positive really makes your life happier, especially if u hate your life. For example, you buy some cherries and grapes from the market, and you find that the two fruits actually taste almost the same. Now we all know that the prices of cherries and grapes are totally different stories, but instead of being frustrated by thinking that you have wasted money to buy cherries that taste like grapes, you could tell yourself that you've bought grapes that taste like cherries and be much more happier. From this we can also know that a sense of satisfaction also comes along with positivity, as the chinese saying goes "one who is contented with what he has is always happy". We don't have to go after fashion, use all our energy to catch live star performances, after all, our way of thinking ultimately affect our moods.
All these seem so little, but I have found that they are very philosophical and magical. You have the choice to make your life more wonderful, why not do it?
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